Some times I'm really unhappy with my bf. He like blur-blur. When I asked him some things he always say don't know. That I don't like about it. When I go dinner with him he help me order some food, he ordered other food. When my food not arrive yet he just sit there and enjoy his food without thinking i'm hungry or not. When I asked him go ask is the food ready or not he'll finish his food first without thinking whether I'm hungry or not. He said let him finish his food first then he'll go ask for me. That time I'm really upset with him.
When ever he make me angry he never do some thing to make me happy back. He always asked me is he make me angry???? This I'm really frustrated. When ever he make me angry he just let it be without doing anything. That I really don't like. Always need to tell him what mistake have he done, boring la. I'm tired of leading. Why can't he learn some thing new leh????
When ever he don't know the place he wouldn't go, always the same place boring. Always asked me where want to go, he don't have any new idea and always I the one to make the decision. Why can't he make the decision???? Why can't he surprise me with some thing new??? What ever I do he never notice anything, other word he never observe me properly.
Please think of some thing new or even surprise me. I don't need him to be romantic, just think of some thing new and be gentlemen. When raining time, he just take the small umbrella instead of taking the big ones. Small one will make both of us wet even though it can bring us closer. I just want him to be a bit more creative that all I want nothing else and know the way where we wanted to go that all nothing much.
That all I want not too much right????
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Look at the bright side, at least ur darling brings an umbrella for you, a small one also OK lor.
Mine, that YAUSIANG..he didnt bring any umbrella, instead ask me to RUN or walk faster. Haih!
Some guys are simply not sensitive, cant blame them cos they are different kind of species than US!
=) got happy time and got sad time..so there's a balance of everything! I am sure sometimes he makes u happy too right?
Happy??? Erm.... let me think first. Seldom loh, most of the time normal.
Don't be so yim chim la!
God sent him to you for a reason.
Most of the time bfs are like a pot of FLOWER and we are the planter/gardener.
e.g. : sering kali kita tanya sesama sendiri kenapa bunga yg kita tanam tak ingin buka, walaupun buka tapi tak cantik?(means: why our bf treat us like shit?)
Actually is how we treat them and in reverse how we will get from them in return.
e.g. : nak bunga buka, kita patut sayang bunga, ada letak baja, letak pasir mahal, pasu cantik and etc. Kalau kita tak sayang bunga, bunga tak akan buka/ tak cantik.
It's how we treat them that cause him indirectly or directly treat us.
So, if you treat him normal only, you cant expect him to treat you super good right or make u SUPER HAPPY?
Ask yourself whether did you treat him VERY GOOD or make him very HAPPY?
If the answer is YES and all the time, then ur dear is blur..maybe he needs more time.
If your answer is NO / so-so lah or sometimes only, then you must do something about it lor.
I believe if you sayang him, he will do the same to you. But it is only applicable to genuine LOVE!
Anyway, try to talk to him about it, a r/ship is build by solving problem together. Avoiding or pretend nothing happen is not the best way.
=)
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